What elements of Big Brother do you see in the U.S. today?

I think the best example is the same-sex marriage. The reason why is because 'big brother' wants to control every movement the people do. In the same-sex marriage situtation, the government is telling the citizens what gender their allowed to marry. I don't agree with that because we have a freedom of speech and to be happy. There nothing in the law saying people aren't allowed to marry the same gender.